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So Angie Writes – Life's A Challenge, So Angie Writes!

Trauma Recovery – Shame Resilience – Self-Compassion – Coping With Chronic Pain

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June 29th. That’s the last time I posted here. I feel sad about that. I am self-compassionate about that. My attention’s been elsewhere…

I started a small business! I’m baking allergen-free treats and selling them locally!

It’s been… challenging.

Walking into this vulnerable space has triggered shame feelings. I’ve been hearing you’re not good enough!Continue reading

Angie September 19, 2016 Leave A Comment Permalink

Moving in Shame – Unhealthy Ways we Cope with Self-Worth Injuries

Moving in Shame - I relate to this little toy soldier wearing armor and wielding a weapon

Three years ago I read Brené Brown’s Daring Greatly, in which she shares her research, revealing shame as a universally-felt emotion.

I define shame as the intensely painful feeling or experience of believing that we are flawed and therefore unworthy of love and belonging – something we’ve experienced, done, or failed to do makes us unworthy of connection.

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Angie June 23, 2016 2 Comments Permalink

February Feelings – Hopeful

February Feelings - Hopeful - SoAngieWrites.com #NVC

I didn’t sleep much last night, then spent the morning in an intense class about chronic pain. I’m home now, and have a bit of capacity left to dive into today’s GROK card

February Feelings - Hopeful - SoAngieWrites.com #NVC

I love Nonviolent Communication, but am also invested in Brené Brown’s teachings, and what she found when she looked into hope, is that it isn’t a feeling at all-

Like most people, I always thought of hope as an emotion-like a warm feeling of optimism and possibility.

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Angie February 17, 2016 Leave A Comment Permalink

February Feelings – Embarrassed

February Feelings - Embarrassed - SoAngieWrites.com #NVC

I’m tired. My back hurts. My partner (and main support person) is traveling for work. I’m a tad weary of writing about feelings, but I’m determined to stick it out! Using coffee and upbeat music to fuel this post. Here we go-

Today’s random GROK card draw is…

February Feelings - Embarrassed - SoAngieWrites.com #NVC

 

Rather than using a dictionary, I’m turning to Brené Brown’s research-based definition of embarrassed, which she shares in Daring Greatly

We often use the terms embarrassment, guilt, humiliation, and shame interchangeably.

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Welcome Autumn – Weekend Update

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Taking some deep breaths of cool Autumn air as I begin this post. Welcome, my favorite time of year!

I recently returned from a weekend intensive offering of The Daring Way, a course I’ve taken a few times before, but never in a large, short-term setting. It was… intense!

Welcome Autumn - Weekend Update by SoAngieWrites.com The Daring Way is based on the research and methodology of Brené Brown.… Continue reading

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Empowerment in Vulnerability

Empowerment in Vulnerability by SoAngieWrites.com #vulnerability #courage #spoonie #selfworth

It’s sometimes scary to admit our feelings and needs, but doing so allows us to live empowered lives. If we try to keep everything in, we may miss chances for connection and healing. We may miss out on help and support.

Sometimes the risk of sharing doesn’t pay off. Sometimes people can’t meet us where we are.… Continue reading

Angie August 31, 2015 Leave A Comment Permalink

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